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How to manage life’s painful detours on your way to your promise
♥ SHARING IS CARING! ♥
If you grew up in church like me, you probably came across a sermon that says something like “from the pit to the palace, God is about to promote you”. And that preacher probably riled up the whole congregation into thinking that God was some genie in a bottle that was going to make all your wishes come true. But if we take the time to read from Genesis Chapter 37 up until the end to chapter 50, we then realize that the story of Joseph is a story of so much pain and strife; so much detours and unfair encounters. We are given the account of a young boy who has a vision from the Lord in his very young years. I believe he was about 17 years old and he shares his dream with his already dysfunctional family and instead of them uplifting him; they do everything to kill the dream.
They even think of killing him, but instead they decide to send him into a life of servitude in a foreign country. The very people that was supposed to protect him, the very people who was supposed to love on him were the ones selling him into slavery. And when we look at it from a modern perspective, we understand what dysfunctional families are and while we might be even tempted to judge harshly his brothers, we have to look at the fact that his brothers have existed way before him, but instead when he was born because he was a love child, he was given preferential treatment. Because of this, his brothers felt jaded. I am not excusing their behavior, but I could understand how that can happen in the family dynamic. I am sure some of us know a thing or two about that.
We might not be a Joseph. We might be one of his brothers. We might live in a place where we feel like we have given all to our parents, but they choose our siblings over us. So going back to now selling him into slavery and finding himself in a place where he had to fend for himself in a different culture and I believe in different language, he excels really well in the house that he is enslaved in because even when he was in a house of bondage the favor of the Lord was on him. I feel like that is a word for someone as well. You might be feeling like you were in a house of bondage. You might feel like God has called you to better, but instead you find yourself seated in a job maybe that doesn’t pay well, but you don’t have the possibility to quit so that you can actually follow what you think God has put on your heart.
But, the favor of the Lord is on you and you excel at everything that you do and likewise this young man is given a test where the mistress of the house keep tempting him into sleeping with her, but he refuses. In refusing to do so, she lies on him and he finds himself in prison and even when he is in prison, he still has the favor of the Lord that he actually is promoted as an overseer of sorts and as God will have it, people call it fate, but as the purposes of God will have it, he meets two servants of Pharaoh who had been imprisoned.
He sees them one fateful morning with a sad look on their faces and I think that is the part of the story that really touches me, is that he still had a heart that would look at someone else’s else pain and care, to look beyond himself and still want to serve. He still had empathy for the men who woke up feeling sad. So then they tell him about their dreams and because he had the gift of interpreting dreams, the cup bearer and I believe another servant, then tells him about his dream and he interprets their respective dreams and gives them a vision for the future and he lets the cup bearer know because the cup bearer was to survive and the other one was to be executed by the Pharaoh.
He tells him, listen I am in prison but I am innocent please once you get back to your job, please remember me and put in a good word with Pharaoh so that I can get out of here. But the Bible tells us that the guy forgets about him and two years pass and then Pharaoh has a dream, a dream that none of his sorcerers or astrologers can interpret.
Absolutely no one in the kingdom can interpret it. So this is where the appointing time has come to pass. After all those two years of him sitting, idly I believe in the prison, knowing he is innocent, knowing God had given him a dream, knowing all that he has on his heart but he had to sit still in all those years and that is again a word for someone and it is specifically a word for me if I am being honest with you. I have sat so many years wondering if I really heard right from God and living in these places of “almosts” not so much as truly embracing what I believe God has put on my heart.
So then he is summoned by the Pharaoh and the Pharaoh tells him about his dream and in all humility and in all understanding Joseph tells him that the Lord of Heaven reveals such dreams and that he had given him a dream for the future to save people from famine. So there and there a man who had been imprisoned, who had been brutally handled most of his life at this point is giving the Pharaoh and you have to remember the Pharaoh was like a god in Egyptian civilization.
He gives him a whole strategic map for 7 years of abundance and 7 years of famine and within those seven years of famine he knew how to manage the whole country. So because of the knowledge that he had and he is seen literally as a god, the Pharaoh promotes him to second after him. I mean this guy goes from I am sitting doing nothing in prison to being PM in a country that is not even his with the people who don’t even know him now serve him. And again going back to the way this this story has been sold to us, you would think that maybe this man was super hyped and excited to be a PM; but what it is revealed to us is in the way he names his children, it tells you that he was still very much in a place of delusion that the dream had happened but his heart was so broken because of what he had encountered and understandably so.
So he then goes on to do his things and to serve and as life will have it, as God will have it, the famine also hit his family so his brothers had to come because Egypt was the only place that had food supplies because of Joseph’s ability to interpret the dream but we can really just see God connecting all the dots. When he has a reunion with his brothers, there is a back and forth exchange that is between him and his brothers until he reveals himself to who he is and after that he is reunited with his father and he brings in his family to live in Egypt.
All to say that the very people who thought they could sell him into slavery to get rid of him, all the people who lied on him and got him in prison, we can look at it and just look at it as an atrocious sequence of events but that is how God chose to tell us his story. That is how God chose to deliver his people from famine and I don’t know where God has assigned you. All I know is that He is breaking you because there is so much weight in your calling and that weight can only be achieved by building a godly character.
What we see in the life of Joseph and I think unlike any other Bible character is that this man always had integrity from the get-go and that honesty got him in trouble but God was doing something in him. Even the events surrounding his birth, we all know that children that are born to barren women always had a special purpose. We can look at it from the life of Isaac, the life of Samson, the life of Samuel. There was always a greater purpose around the child who was born to a barren woman.
So you might look at all of your life and do an audit, try to connect the dots to where God has led you and it doesn’t matter where you are. What I am here to tell you is that there is a purpose for each of us. Not all of us will become PMsm as a matter of fact, I don’t think any of us will become PMs of Egypt but whatever area of influence that you can find yourself in, serve with all your heart and understand that this calling, this vision is going to crush you and it is going to require everything that you are. I am not going to lie to you and tell you that I haven’t been in a place where I feel like quitting and just quitting this business, quitting everything and just going home and cry myself to sleep until death comes upon me, literally.
But if God has decided to crush us for His calling, if He has decided that we have to take on our crosses and follow Him, then that is what is going to happen. But at the end of it, there is also a story of restoration because God is not evil; though some days it might feel like He is, some days you might feel like He is hurting you. But He is working something out for your good. Not all of it will be good but we have to understand that there is no way around our calling. Our emblem is an emblem of a cross. We have to follow the Master wherever He leads. So whatever detour you are on, please understand that God is not done with you. He did not give you that vision or that dream to frustrate you. He gave it to you so that you may be a blessing to a greater group of people, that you may be of service or you may have an impact for the kingdom and for the glory of His name. So take heart friend. If that is you, know that He has so much more for you and I am rooting for you. Be blessed.
Xo,
Ange
Ange Ingabire
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